Many thanks to all who made suggestions, as well as to those who said we should just go with what we want :)
Turns out, the original name my hubby was kicking around didn't stick. It was good for a few laughs, but then we hunkered down to the business of giving him a name we both felt suited him. We had many a laugh as we tried more than a few on for size...lol.
So without further ado, I hereby announce my husband's name to you here in Blogland. The man, formerly known as J, shall, from this day forth, be known as............
By the way, he is lovin' his name :D