Tuesday, December 24, 2013

'Tis The Season To Think Twice About Being Naughty Or Nice



                   






So what do you think of the early Christmas gift J decided to give me the other day?  He made it himself and is quite pleased with his creation.  He traced his own hand for the top portion.  You'll notice the second pic  shows some soft furry material.  That's the flip side.  A day or two earlier, J accidentally let the cat out of the bag when he left a picture up on the computer of a couple of wooden implements.  Now, he had been spending a good deal of time in our garage making some really cute and wonderful Christmas decorations.  Pleased with the results, he decided he'd try his hand (pun intended) at making his own implement.  So I (half jokingly) asked him to put some soft padding on it.  Hmmm........is this the part where I'm supposed to say how proud I am of him for his creativity?

The next day I was feeling kind of punky, a bit out of sorts (well, actually, more than just a bit).  I was worried about something that had nothing to do with J or that paddle.  It was a legitimate concern, and I told J how I was feeling.  He listened and offered me his understanding and comfort, and also a reminder that I am not to allow it to cause me to take it out on him with any snark, snip, or disrespect.  Who, ME?  Okay, I admit he had a point.  Amazing how well our men know us, isn't it?  Sometimes better than we know ourselves.

As the day went on, I did manage to avoid being snarky and disrespectful, but J felt I was teetering on the line.


J:  C'mon, darling, we need to try this out.

S:  Oohhh, why?

He told me.

S:  But that thing is so THICK!

J:  It has a soft side, remember?

S:  Hmmm.


So I did as I was told and lay over his knee.  I asked him to start out slowly, which he did.  Let me tell you, that bad boy is powerful.  This being the first time using it, and especially that I hadn't actually acted out, J was careful to use less strength than he might otherwise.  He told me that he was using 25% of his strength. Yikes......

J's words during this time were comforting, as he told me he could see I was not myself, and he wanted to assure me he is always looking out for me and protecting me.  He said this spanking was a preventive one, a reminder that I didn't need to go down that old familiar road I've gone down many times before when I was upset/worried/or fill in the blank.  He said that was my pattern, and I knew he was right.

I handled the spanking quite well, if I do say so myself.  Even at 25%, though, let me tell you, that thing packs a wallop.


Ooh, that hurts, Honey.

No response, just

Smack, smack, smack, smack, smack, smack, smack, smack, smack, smack smack.

He stopped and rubbed my bottom a bit, and then resumed.

Ow, ow, ow, Honey......that really hurts!

Smacking continues.

S:  Babe, REALLY!

More rubbing, then

Smack, smack, smack, smack, smack.

And finally, he was done.


I guess he was paying attention when I told him he needs to go longer and harder during our spanking sessions.

J finished when HE felt it was time, which, I guess know..........sigh............is the way it's supposed to go.  Hadn't I read that somewhere everywhere?

Remember those little dotted bruises I was concerned my doctor might notice last week?  Those were nothing compared to the matching ovals I'm now sporting on each cheek.  We were both really surprised by those, as the way J spanked wasn't any harder than when he's spanked me with his hand or leather paddle. While bruising doesn't bother me, J really doesn't like it -- it's hard for him to look at (while, truth be told, I check it out every day with my little hand-held mirror and in some kind of weird and twisted way, admire his handiwork), although he does apply the Arnica when needed.  I guess the remedy might be that my bum needs to be better prepped and primed in order to better handle The Black Hand (as J has so aptly named it).

This was the first time I've received a preventive spanking, something we had talked about, though, a couple of times.  Afterward, I did, indeed, feel taken care of, protected, and well loved.

Now I'm sure all of you are going to be OH-SO-GOOD during this wonderful season.  Maybe my story is a little reminder?

Merry Christmas to all my blogging friends, commenters, and lurkers!!!  Speaking of lurkers, I started this blog after Love Our Lurkers Day 8, so please don't feel you have to wait a year before leaving a comment. I'd love to hear from you anytime  :)




12 comments:

  1. To the lady, who owns the blog with no name. I am pleased that you allowed your ever loving husband to try out his new 'spanking glove, on your bare bottom. You gave him a beautiful Christmas Present. I hope you will receive more presents like this in the coming year 2014. Bottoms Up, and Panties Down, and may they be yours, forever more.

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    1. Ah, who'da thunk I would have welcomed New Year's wishes such as these just a few short years ago........certainly not moi!

      Happy New Year to you, as well, Six. May it hold all you wish and hope for.

      Sadie

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  2. you've gotta hand it to him ....lol that's a nice hand you've got there. wood makes me bruise easy. you just may be a leather stingy kinda gal :-)

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    1. Yes, Coral, a leather stingy kinda gal, that's me :-) I'm finding wood and bruising seem to go hand in hand together!

      Sadie

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  3. Ah just tell J that he needs to spank you more! LOL. Your bum will get used to it! Lucy and I were joking of the injustice of it all- our spankings are sooooooooo much more intense now than they were a year ago and NOTHING to show for it! pfft! Wood takes a while to 'get used to'.

    Well all check out our 'battle scars' Sadie. I mean we DID have to endure the spanking...walk with pride. LOL.

    Merry Christmas!!!
    love
    willie

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    1. Hey, Willie, J said to tell you and Lucy he'd be happy to make some paddles for you -- just have your hubbies outline their hands, so it will be more personalized for you ;-)

      As for walking with pride, ya know......I find I AM doing that! Of course, no one but J and I (well, with the exception of blogland...lol) knows what's on my backside, but just knowing those marks are there keeps the spanking, along with the lesson learned, closer to my heart and mind. I think about them several times a day, even though I can pretty much sit comfortably again.

      Hope you and Barney and your family had a wonderful Christmas!!!

      Love,
      Sadie

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  4. That thing is pretty clever. I will not be showing it to my husband though the little designs are a nice touch. Glad you felt taken care of afterward. Merry Christmas!

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    1. Are you sure, Leah? J said he would be happy to custom make one just for you and your hubby. All that's needed is an outline of your man's hand. Sure you won't reconsider? It really did do the trick for yours truly...lol.

      Hope you and your hubby had a wonderful Christmas!

      Sadie

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  5. Very nice! So if your J were to market his hand spanker would the spankee in fact be spanked by J's hand? lol

    I think we have all admired our husband's handiwork in the mirror. It's natural curiosity. Back in the day when we first started spanking (like a million billion years ago) I used to always bruise. One time I had the worst bruising I had ever seen. It was horrid looking, and yet, I was fascinated too. I think after a time our bodies get used to it or build up a tolerance as I really don't bruise at all now.

    Anyway, Merry Christmas!!! Hope you only get good girl spankings through the New
    Year.

    love
    sara

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    1. Hi Sara,

      To answer your question..........no. J said he'd be happy to take orders for 'The Black Hand'; all he needs is an outline of the HOH's hand, and it will be custom made for the two of you? Interested?........lol.

      Glad to know I'm not alone in the admiration of my hubby's handiwork on my derriere. Horrid and fascinating all at the same time, yep, you hit the nail on the head! Have you ever gone a long time without any bruising and found yourself wishing for just a bit? (I have).

      Hope you and SM and your family had a wonderful Christmas. May 2014 hold many good girl spankings for all of us -- Cheers!!!

      Love,
      Sadie

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  6. Hi Sadie for Now, :)

    What a very creative gift that you got from J! I loved the fuzzy soft part that he added for you. LOL! Sounds like he put it all to good use. Those little preventative spankings might be ouchie, but they seem to work pretty well I think! :)

    Hope that you and J are having a very Merry Christmas! Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

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    1. Yes, Katie, those little preventative spankings do work quite well!

      J and I had a wonderful Christmas -- hope you and your hubby did, as well!

      Love,
      Sadie

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