Would anyone mind sharing an experience or two they've had with butt plugs? I've tried it a couple of times, but never for discipline. The problem is, they......ahem......slide right out of me. I have the silicone kind, and nothing I do seems to keep it in place. Even the larger size falls out.
I've read about some husbands make their wives wear them for a period of time to remind them of their submission, and I recently brought up the idea to J. Seems like it would be a real humble reminder, alright. I would love to hear from anyone who uses it for this purpose and how effective you feel it is.
The kind I have is similar to this one:
Any suggestions?
I have the same problem with silicone. I haven't tried yet, but my friend says the stainless steel don't, because they have some weight to them!
ReplyDeleteI've wondered about the stainless steel, too Renee, and even a glass one....except, with glass, OMG could you imagine if it accidentally broke inside of us?!? Well, if you get to the stainless steel before me, please let me know how you like it.
DeleteThanks,
Sadie
Well I can't help you out with this...but(t) <- I crack myself up! Oh CRACK...lol...
ReplyDeleteAnyway, why the embarrassment? Sadie isn't your real name! Heck, once we ask our husbands to spank us, and have fake GYN appointments, what is a little butt plug talk between friends?
Hope you find the answers you are looking for.
willie
Oh my gosh Willie you are a "crack" up!!! Seriously! lol
DeleteHA HA, Willie....CRACK....yes, definite pun intended! LOL
DeleteSo, my gal pal Willie, while Sadie is not my real name, a few of my blogger friends (including you!) do know my real name.......and, if I should ever have the pleasure of meeting any of you in person someday, I know when you meet me, you'll be seeing me with a butt plug that keeps slipping out of my butt....lol.
But alas, you are right. What IS a little butt plug talk between friends? Why, just last week, you and I were chatting about another very interesting topic and I told you I thought you should blog about it, remember??? If not, I'll be happy to send you an email and remind ya...HA!
Your friend,
Sadie :)
Yes, Sara, she's definitely a crack-up! LOL
DeleteOh I don't remember that conversation...probably blacked it out! LOL
DeleteAs for meeting some day...I have met other bloggers and I will tell you that their neither regions NEVER crossed my mind! However if I hear a clink when you sit down, I may think you took someone's metal butt plug advice!
Hmmm.......I KNEW it. That image of me will now be forever etched into your mind. Oh, well, hell's bells.......what's a little butt plug humor between friends, ain't that right, Willie?
DeleteHugs,
Sadie
Hi Sadie,
ReplyDeleteI agree that the silicone plugs are hard to keep in and that the steel ones usually have a slimmer shank and are easier. If you are really committed to your current one, you could make a (jewelry grade) fine chain g-string attached around the waist with a connection and loop to fit around the shank...not much information, but it can be set up to hold it in place
Hi Don, so glad you stopped by and commented. While I'm not really committed to the silicone one I have, your idea about making a fine chain g-string is interesting, and creative!
DeleteThanks,
Sadie
So...while this subject has come up, why is the use of a butt plug considered to be a submissive act and why do some men like to use these in conjenction with a punishment spanking? I don't get the connection. I thought these were utilized for pleasure. Thanks for opening up the question for discussion.
ReplyDeleteHi Catherine, thanks for stopping by and commenting! I really hope someone who has experience with this can answer your question. I guess I really don't have an interest in it for punishment purposes, but I've read posts where some women have to wear them for a certain amount of time, i.e. one woman may get real stressed out and start acting out, let's say, when company comes over, so her husband has her wear a plug to help remind her to stay calm. Some women have said that, while they may not like the feel of one for an extended period of time, they do feel more submissive because it serves as a reminder every time they feel it. It's definitely humbling, and I can see how it could help keep a woman feeling intimately connected to her man when only the two know about it.
DeleteSadie
Sorry, I have no idea but good luck? :)
ReplyDeleteThanks, Sara. Should I keep everyone posted as I go along? At the very least, it could keep us laughing at Willie's CRACK-UPS...LOL.
DeleteSadie
Well Sadie it takes practice. Really it works your muscles to keep it in and I find "natural" lubrication works better for some reason. When I've tried a lubrication that's safe for silicone it gets too slippery. I have no experience with the stainless steel so can't say if it would work better. Really, it's kind of just practicing tightening the muscle and holding it in. If anyone would have tried to mention something like this to me a couple years ago I would have been mortified. But honestly the plug and beyond was something Luke wanted to explore and I wanted to do it for him. May I just say thank goodness for my mad scientist and his experiments. Okay, now I'm bright red but like Willie pointed out, my name isn't Clara. Keep experimenting Sadie ;)
ReplyDeleteI would have been mortified only a short time ago, myself, Clara! Interesting how far we have all come..........I couldn't even say the word 'spanking' out lout to J when we first started discussing dd and practicing it.
ReplyDeleteSo I need to practice tightening my heinie muscles? Sorta like the kegel ones for our other delicate area......ok, I guess I can try that. Good thing I have a keen sense of humor......
Thanks for putting your embarrassment aside to help me, Clara -- much appreciated!
((Hugs))
I think I read a discussion about this somewhere in the past few weeks, and, if I remember correctly, the name NJoy came up. I haven't googled it and know nothing about it, but it was highly regarded, and, I think, it may have been stainless.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Anonymous (don't know if you're the same Anonymous who commented on my other post, but if you consider leaving just a teenie weenie one-letter initial, it would help me know which one you are without knowing who you are (does that make sense?).
DeleteAnyway, I will google it and check it out. Amazon may even have it. Thanks for the tip :)
Sadie