Sunday, August 31, 2014

Can Pain Be My Friend?

I was talking with a blogger friend last night about the effectiveness of a really sore bottom after a good, hard spanking.  We both don't like what it takes to get there, yet we like feeling the soreness a day or two (or even three) afterward.  She had had an especially hard maintenance and was feeling it the next day, which she liked.  I thought back wistfully to those times (I can count them on one hand) that my bottom was so sore, just getting in the car was very painful, yet............you guessed it............I loved it.  And that made me think I was very strange.

I haven't had that kind of spanking in a LONG time.....those kinds for me have always been punishments.  Kane has learned how to spank me gradually during maintenance, which has lessened bruising significantly.  My friend and I talked about that, too, and how we even like having bruises on our butts.  I remember some really pretty shades of purple.  They always bothered Kane, though.  He hated to see them.  It bothered him to know he'd caused them, even though I told him I was fine with them.  Heck, I would pull a hand mirror out of my bathroom closet several times a day to admire his handiwork.

At the very least, my friend and I agreed that it was the ever-present reminder that kept us feeling in that soft, submissive place.








I know I could ask Kane for an extra dose of heavy-handedness, but that would most likely mean that he would use the wooden paddle he made, which he 'affectionately' refers to as 'The Black Hand'.  I can't tolerate too many of those.  I guess I could ask him to use his hand at full-force strength.  Gulp.  

Alas, I am a big weanie when it comes to pain.  Oh, the connundrum.....sigh........

9 comments:

  1. LOL Sadie..you want the end results but getting there isn't all that fun sometimes is it. ;)

    Hope you and Kane are doing well.

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Thanks, Cat. We're doing the best we can!

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  2. The anticipation, and the end results are the best bits. The actual spanking bit is not always as I would wish, but then, I am such a wuss.

    Strangely, my bottom never even stays red for more than a couple of hours, let alone remaining sore the next day. Wow! I can't even imagine that. Maybe I have an extra hard rump from all my years of riding horses?!

    I'm not so keen on bruises (don't bruise much these days) but I do like to feel the burn/soreness as long as possible. I'm wondering what your secret is. LOL! I even sit on a wooden kitchen chair in the hopes of making it last longer.

    Many hugs
    Ami

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    1. Oh, the things we do.......I'm glad to know I'm not alone!

      Thanks, Ami. It's so nice to see you here. I have a lot of catching up to do!

      ((Hugs)),
      Sadie

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    2. Oh, and as for my 'secret', you ask? That's a good question! At first, it was the words, "Eat, Pray, Spank, Love" that followed my title. Then I changed it to "Never Lose Hope". Not so sure tht these are secrets, per se, but hey.........I fell in love with the title...LOL

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  3. Wow Sadie your site looks awesome! As you know, I don't get out reading, responding or posting anymore but something made me log in tonight and lurk around.

    Well I'd like to say be careful what you wish for but it just seems like every once in awhile I NEED that attention getting spanking. I don't know that pain is necessarily a friend but that soft submissive side feels pretty good. Hang in there Sadie. You guys have so much on your plate. I know your both doing your best to take care of each other!

    Sending Hugs, Clara

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    1. Oh, Clara, thank you -- you are so kind! All we can do is pray and try our best, right?

      Sending hugs right back atcha,

      Love,
      Sadie

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  4. I can live without next day soreness but a half done spanking is worthless to me. It just leaves me in a horrible place and it would have been better if he never started. Sadly, there are times when to do it right, it takes some time and the end result is that I get all the angst out. I say just ask for what you need and see what happens.

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    1. Well now.......um.........here's the thing. That would be easier said than done..... Remember I said I was a big weanie?

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