tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post2004673113026587768..comments2021-02-17T08:14:05.611-05:00Comments on Sadie's Secret : A Spanking and Grooming......Two For The Price Of OneSadiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-43823098675196036752014-01-17T22:00:59.051-05:002014-01-17T22:00:59.051-05:00This is true....for all of us, I'm sure...lol....This is true....for all of us, I'm sure...lol.Sadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-23503974479775651092014-01-17T20:08:37.143-05:002014-01-17T20:08:37.143-05:00He never has asked me to call him sir...Does it he...He never has asked me to call him sir...Does it help...Yes, I think it helps him gage where I am at in the situation, but I can't say that it helps ease the punishment any. Grrrrr. I think maybe sir would pop out more often if that was the case. :0)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15409977636543884387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-76787647212481334572014-01-15T22:00:17.222-05:002014-01-15T22:00:17.222-05:00It's a good reminder to me that J is in charge...It's a good reminder to me that J is in charge, too, Clara. Takes a while to get past the awkwardness, like you said. Then it starts to become more natural....kinda like spanking, no?<br /><br />Love,<br />SadieSadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-15301101960279505452014-01-15T21:56:57.476-05:002014-01-15T21:56:57.476-05:00Oh? Do tell, Leah......lol.
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SadieOh? Do tell, Leah......lol.<br /><br />Love,<br />SadieSadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-33913386271718283142014-01-15T21:55:54.789-05:002014-01-15T21:55:54.789-05:00HA, Willie, wouldn't that be something? I muc...HA, Willie, wouldn't that be something? I much prefer to keep the bruising limited to my bottom....<br /><br />Love,<br />SadieSadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-82756919331533479222014-01-15T10:53:36.336-05:002014-01-15T10:53:36.336-05:00Saying "Sir" felt really awkward at firs...Saying "Sir" felt really awkward at first but once I got past the awkwardness I realized that the times he wants me to use it are the times I need the reminder that he's in charge. He will expect hearing Sir when I ask for something after a punishment/correction. And honestly, I need to use it then. It takes away that lingering edgy feeling of I was right and I'd rather bite the hand that just spanked me than admit I was wrong. Each time I say it, it gets easier and has more value. It doesn't feel as faked and forced as it used to and it helps get my head in the right place. Still one of those things that's hard to say or write though, lol. Yes, sometimes I call my husband Sir and it's not in play. <br /><br />Sorry I was so late to this, ClaraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-38566851225894612442014-01-14T22:40:13.946-05:002014-01-14T22:40:13.946-05:00So the "Sir" comes easily to you, Cather...So the "Sir" comes easily to you, Catherine -- good for you!<br /><br />And so respectful that you choose to call him that on your own at times. I'm sure he really appreciates that.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />SadieSadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-45882084317910394182014-01-14T22:37:46.865-05:002014-01-14T22:37:46.865-05:00Thanks, Sara. I thought so, too :)
Hugs,
SadieThanks, Sara. I thought so, too :)<br /><br />Hugs,<br />SadieSadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-70136244836405058642014-01-14T22:37:12.667-05:002014-01-14T22:37:12.667-05:00J likes my hair long, too, Irish Lucky. He's ...J likes my hair long, too, Irish Lucky. He's OK with the trims, though, since I don't actually get my hair cut shorter -- kinda just keeps it at the same length.<br /><br />So when you pull sir out when you're in super big trouble, is that of your own volition, or does your husband require it? Does it help ease the punishment any?<br /><br />Hugs,<br />SadieSadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-91886722384064785572014-01-14T22:33:18.779-05:002014-01-14T22:33:18.779-05:00Hi Queenie, welcome to my blog! Thank you for com...Hi Queenie, welcome to my blog! Thank you for commenting :)<br /><br />Have you ever asked your husband to brush your hair? Maybe he doesn't know how much you'd like it. Sometimes I ask J simply to run his fingers through my hair -- it comforts me.<br /><br />On the 'sir' thing, who knows? Your husband may eventually change his mind. Just like when we, as couples, had to get used to (them) giving and (our) receiving spankings. I couldn't even say the word 'spanking' out loud to J for the longest time in the beginning!<br /><br />In the meantime, you can always call him "Sir" in your mind (and heart) :)<br /><br />Hugs,<br />Sadie<br /><br />Sadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-8534740768810596092014-01-14T21:54:51.645-05:002014-01-14T21:54:51.645-05:00I saw 'yes, sir' all the time to strangers...I saw 'yes, sir' all the time to strangers, coworkers, my 6-year old, but I can't say it to my husband with a straight face. I did once in bed though and it was super hot.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08858642432841882311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-1133967757407692162014-01-14T21:51:50.678-05:002014-01-14T21:51:50.678-05:00Today I came home from an appointment and had chor...Today I came home from an appointment and had chores to do after lunch. I really wanted to go online for a bit first, so I texted J.<br /><br />"Just got home. Having something to eat. May I please go on the internet for a bit before doing chores and laundry?"<br /><br />"You may if I get a YES SIR"<br /><br />"YES SIR!!!"<br /><br />"You have my permission."<br /><br />HOH's.........sigh............gotta love 'em. :)Sadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-12874301513955740502014-01-14T21:49:14.262-05:002014-01-14T21:49:14.262-05:00When we first started Dd and Barney would read blo...When we first started Dd and Barney would read blogs with me he said two things, " Please don't ever call me Daddy or Sir" Of course he has said a LOT of things and has since changed his mind. Pretty sure the Daddy thing isn't going to enter our house- okay by me. Not sure about the Sir. He did say I could answer " Yes Barney" ( okay sounds better when you use his real name...LOL) as a sign of respect.<br /><br />Barney has never brushed my hair, but then again *I* don't brush my hair. I'd look like a fryed poodle if he did! But ya know your thing was sweet! Just make sure J doesn't get confused in the heat of the moment!<br /><br />love<br />williewilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-50313956597884108942014-01-14T19:17:53.480-05:002014-01-14T19:17:53.480-05:00Nice post Sadie. Growing up military I was used to...Nice post Sadie. Growing up military I was used to responding with sir. It does show a level of respect. While I have not been requesed to necessarily do so, I send a daily text saying good morning or afternoon sir, just to keep my head in the right spot of submission. I can say over the recent weeks, if hubby is getting irate with my responses or behavior, if I respond with a yes sir, things go much better for me. I too, take pleasure in knowing it holds special significance for us.. andI believe he has earned this much.Annabellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10908776052501507880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-88368544368131152722014-01-14T16:21:31.525-05:002014-01-14T16:21:31.525-05:00Aww that was lovely. Aww that was lovely. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-49474801712892750662014-01-14T15:46:46.005-05:002014-01-14T15:46:46.005-05:00Ahhhhhh.. Very sweet.
I usually only pull sir o...Ahhhhhh.. Very sweet. <br /><br />I usually only pull sir out when I am in super big trouble, so he knows I know that I am super big trouble. :0)<br /><br />Alex likes to brush my hair and it is one of my favorite things. I have long hair and he hates when I get my hair cut, even gets critical when I go for a trim. Really funny. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15409977636543884387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-75275295586785378862014-01-14T14:03:52.830-05:002014-01-14T14:03:52.830-05:00Wow Sadie, that's sounds so nice. My husband h...Wow Sadie, that's sounds so nice. My husband has never brushed my hair in all the years we've been married. I think it would be a very intimate thing. I tried calling my husband sir once. He didn't like it much. I'm hoping that in time he'll see it's a way for me to show respect and submission. Until then, I won't be saying it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-19922677191581919012014-01-14T09:15:43.400-05:002014-01-14T09:15:43.400-05:00The sir thing catches me too b/c it is only expect...The sir thing catches me too b/c it is only expected at certain times. Sometimes when I have nodded or said "yes" he gives me a "pardon me?" and I know that he expects me to say it. I haven't quite figured it out but there is that small tingle inside. <br /><br />I love having my hair brushed. :)Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00511114118020790717noreply@blogger.com