tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post1159072404625469727..comments2021-02-17T08:14:05.611-05:00Comments on Sadie's Secret : Round And Round We Go.....Sadiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-35898040117993595762015-04-08T20:58:48.403-04:002015-04-08T20:58:48.403-04:00Thank you, Megan, you're so right! Welcome to...Thank you, Megan, you're so right! Welcome to Blogland :) What is the name of your blog? I tried clicking on your name to find it, but no luck.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />SadieSadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-35748431329166077992015-04-08T20:57:26.420-04:002015-04-08T20:57:26.420-04:00That's an interesting perspective, Willie. I&...That's an interesting perspective, Willie. I'm going to share it with Kane. Thanks for the encouragement!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />SadieSadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515398597364090414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-63898313740248419642015-04-08T08:56:26.359-04:002015-04-08T08:56:26.359-04:00Sadie,
I'm new to blogging and new to your blo...Sadie,<br />I'm new to blogging and new to your blog as well. I too, am in my 50's and admit that ttwd feels awkward sometimes,especially when I don't agree with a rule. What I'm finding out is that submission is a daily choice (and sometimes an hourly and minute-by-minute choice. I sometimes have to do a lot of praying when I'm about to be spanked so I can be in the right submissive mindset. You are not alone in your struggle!<br />MeganAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04250368480162932848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3878891820269114501.post-72478797590790572262015-04-07T13:40:25.983-04:002015-04-07T13:40:25.983-04:00Well for me, it would have been frustrating once u...Well for me, it would have been frustrating once upon a time on a different level. There was a time in our Dd relationship where Barney would punish for things I thought rather low on the importance scale! I know not ours to judge and eventually he did up the ante, quite a bit. BUT it was very difficult at the time to bite my tongue and go with it. I wasn't always successful that is for sure!<br /><br />A good friend told me and in turn Barney that it is the submissive struggle he finds sexy. Yes of course they want us to submit, but he also said those few minutes before we do, the look of 'am I going to do this?" and then actually doing it is a high for him. I asked Barney about that. He said he had never actively thought about it at the time, but yes. Sometimes we have quiet stare downs. Barney won't say anything he just waits. Maybe that is what you need? A minute or two to gather your thoughts, without the threat. To be able to do it on your own and that way Kane won't believe it was merely the threat of more that had you do it, but the struggle within that you won!<br /><br />I think for many of us, ttwd is a bit of a teeter-totter, especially when we have so many things on our plates. Congratulate yourself for opening up to Kane and for questioning yourself too. No bad can come from either!<br /><br />love<br />willie williehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.com